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Ugh

So, this afternoon, I was told by the agency that I am not allowed to write a blog about this journey. Nothing at all that can be seen publicly. Not one word. Well, I cannot stop writing this blog. It … Continue reading

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Snowmageddon #2

Well, it only took us 4 hours to make what is normally an hour drive up north this afternoon. It was awful. The highway was CLOSED for about an hour of that because of a multi-car crash. While sitting in … Continue reading

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Snow? Again? Seriously?

So, they are predicting a snowstorm AGAIN for this weekend. Just for the record… I WILL GET TO THIS MEETING. I do not care what the weather decides to do, damn it! Anyway, I am starting to feel a little … Continue reading

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Meeting with Birth Dad

We finally got to meet with Birth Dad (BD) yesterday. The meeting went very well. He is an extremely nice guy and seems comfortable with his descision. His sister joined him for the meeting and she is clearly a big … Continue reading

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Tomorrow…

I don’t even know what to write. I just got a call from the agency. The birth Mom and birth Dad are having trouble communicating and want to do separate meetings with us. Birth Mom has cancelled for tomorrow and … Continue reading

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My thoughts on Mothers and how strong we must all be…

I have known many very special women in my lifetime. Three in particular come to mind tonight when I think of bravery, strength and courage. The first is my beautiful daughters’ birth Mom. She was 18 years old when she made … Continue reading

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Snowmageddon…

Great. So, we were supposed to go to meet the birthparents tomorrow. But, instead we had to reschedule the meeting for next Saturday because the forecast is calling for high winds and up to a foot of snow to fall … Continue reading

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Week Two…

So, it has been about a week since we got the call from the agency. I still feel really scared and even though we have been waiting for this for almost two years now… I almost afraid to be happy/excited … Continue reading

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Week number one…

My husband and I adopted our fist child in January of 2009 through an open adoption. The process for domestic open adoption is, as I like to call it… NOT for sissies. We adore our childs birthfamily and love having … Continue reading

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